Saturday, March 27, 2010

Anonymous; Disclosed

Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show...(the opening lines of David Copperfield as written by Charles Dickens;inspired by MTM). Or at least this ACCOUNT will, perhaps, have a reflection on whether I'm going to be the hero in my own life...In my midnight confession---When I'm telling the World that I love you. In my midnight confession, When I say all the Things that I want to... The Grass Roots

I can't even really recall what date that we actually decided we were going to meet at Norb Warnes house. I only remember that it was late in the summer of 1988. And I can't even recall anymore who the original committee consisted of; I only remember there was 8 of us that came together. I shared an original 8 1/2 X 11 with Norb Warnes that I'm pretty sure had those names on there. But Norb still has it so I can't review it to mention the names here. And as time moved along and the work had to get done, it whittled down to the 3 of us. It would be Norb Warnes, Joe Barrile, and Lou Marconi. To put together a 1989; 20 Year Reunion, there was going to be some work to do because there was no current data-base to work with---since there was no active alumni apparatus to draw information from. I decided that besides being the treasurer, I was going to take on the responsibility of securing directory information so Joe could get the announcements out. I had two things that I felt confident to be working in my favor. The first was that we were still young!!!! So I was hoping that the parents of the Fallon Class of 1969 graduates were still alive and, for the most part, living where they were---in 1969. Or that they weren't bashful and was still listed in the phone book. The second factor was most critical. I knew I was going to be racking-up phone calls so I was going to be doing that---at Laughlin's Towing!!!! I worked nights and week-ends there on a part-time basis in the mid-1980's. I was often there---especially on the week-end; alone. I was never asked, but the phone bill had to be an interesting one!!! I mean---I'm calling Patanella in Illinois!! I'm catching up with Reinhardt in California!! I got ahold of Dan Christiano in Arizona, I got Dan Privitera in Akron (NY!!!!). And the list goes on!!! What helped in getting the calls 'buried' is that Laughlin also ran a 'rigging' business and his salesman was often calling prospects and vendors and jobbers---all over the country.

But something else was starting to occur. I was beginning to feel a FIRE in my belly; a desire to want to express in writing, what was churning in my heart, my mind, my soul. In effect, besides being the treasurer, and the grunt developing a data-base, I now started writing 'some' notes. After a while, these notes starting taking on journalistic paragraphs and pages with insights and perspectives. I'm thinking, there is probably one or two of you wondering if I was using one of those Marble-Patterned Composition Books!?!? No!!! I was using a 3-ring binder, instead. If I didn't like where the content was going, I just popped it out and started over!! But I was still gun shy. Being so non-descript in High School, I wasn't sure about my ability to express myself with confidence and I sure-as-hell wasn't sure yet--about how those around me were going to review it. The writing started taking on visits to the Downtown Erie County Library. I was also sourcing material at the Buffalo State College Library. Since I was a Lifetime Member of the Alumni Association, I had use of the Library there, for free!!! It is just so amazing!!! Back then---you wrote your notes and typed your detail on an electronic typewriter. Since there was no word-processing apparatus, you wanted to get the manuscript exactly right---then you paid to have someone type it. Now---when I Web Log, I just type along; let my thoughts go---and my mistakes!!! Correcting is so easy!!!

I decided that I was going to CHRONICLE our Bishop Fallon High School experience in an essay and present it to the community in a Pamphlet format. Joe Barrile helped put the written matter into a nice Cover-Paged Pamphlet---and it was decided that THE CHRONICLE would be the Memento for the 1989; 20 Year Class Reunion. Up to today, it has been authored as Anonymous. Now You Know The Rest Of The Story.


“ A CHRONICLE ”

The decade started out innocently enough, no doubt. Sure, there were a few distractions that might have had us pause for a moment or two, but nothing staggering enough to undermine that idyllic serenity.

On the international scene no doubt there was the East-West mind-game played between two Super Powers called the Cold War. There was the rising of national consciousness in Africa. Existing was a dispute between the wealthy landed-gentry and the disenfranchised in Cuba, the confusion over who had the right to claim landed, and immigrant status in the Middle East, and there was this petty misunderstanding between a despot and a dictator in Southeast Asia.

On the domestic scene there was a fringe sub-culture of disenfranchised intellectuals known as the Bohemian movement manifesting itself in such personages as Lawrence Ferlinghetti. Coincidental to this was some flexing of “expressive” muscle on a couple of college campuses on the West Coast. As well, there was a black woman in Alabama who wanted to sit in another part of a bus other than where she normally did. There were children, black children, in Arkansas who received special attention because they were going to a school different from the one they did the year before.

For the most part, however, we as a people and culture were pretty wrapped up and consumed by a burgeoning middle class prosperity and lifestyle, nurturing another wave of the blossoming baby boom and enhancing suburban sprawl. For the mainstream of America, “The Dream” had become a reality. Our parents were working hard, but they were also finding they could have time to enjoy life and still put something away so their children wouldn’t have to face the horrors of a depression as they had to.

Such was the near Camelot typesetting as we youngsters were making our way through the early years of the 1960’s and grade school, leading up to our converging into the hallways and homerooms of Bishop Fallon High School in the Fall of 1965.

Between the dawning of the decade and the halfway mark, we saw a man reach near invincible stature as he defused a dispute that had global conflagration written all over it. We distinctly remember what we were doing on that infamous day, approximately one year later when this same man was reduced to mortal frailty by way of an assassin’s bullet. We saw a Black man display inspirational leadership qualities preaching a message of racial equality and brotherhood through a peaceful agenda.

As well we saw the replacement President of the one fatally shot, decide to escalate dramatically our military involvement in a dispute over ideologies in a small, backward, but supposedly strategic, strip of land in Southeast Asia, and we saw a group of four young men from Liverpool, England sing and play music that, all at once, pioneered, rocked, shocked, and inspired the second wave of baby boomers to a new way of thinking, behaving, dressing, and expressing themselves. While we, now as students of Bishop Fallon High School, for the most part existed and conducted ourselves in a rather cloistered environment, the “changes” going on around us were becoming more and more evident.

Certainly, Camelot had eroded. Disillusionment had replaced that sense of harmony, homogeneity, and tranquility. Having been awakened, the black movement was now a real and vocal factor beckoning for attention. While probably a little too vocal in some quarters for what the Centrists felt comfortable with, the message had repercussions that could impede the progress considered moving a bit slower than desired.

Inspired by the evolution of the popular music, reinforced by relaxed tolerance levels brought about by the flexing of those expressive muscles in Academia during the late Fifties and early Sixties, there had occurred a passing of the torch, so to speak, of a rebellious code of dress and behavior to the high school aged adolescents across the land. This situation infused with a nationally sponsored effort to integrate schools racially, helped to feed the fires of expression, dissension, frustration and violence. Colleges and high schools were becoming more and more the testing grounds and sounding boards for a number of issues that had social and political significance. One was beginning to wonder if reading, writing, and arithmetic had any usefulness at all in these scholastic environments. On the local beat, while Bennett, Lafayette, Grover Cleveland, Emerson, East, Seneca, and Burgard High Schools were all having their problems with racial agitation and social commentary, Bishop Fallon High School was tranquil by comparison.

While certain persons of the student body, individually or collectively, may have wanted to express social and political commentary, the Oblates and the Lay Teacher Body at Large, either by accident or design, seemed to know how to recognize a potential trouble spot and defuse it by steering the energy into a more acceptable form. Activities like the Spirit Committee, Prom Committee, Student Council, Student Court, Library Council, Radio Club, Mission Club, Senior Activities Committee, World Affairs Forum and Science Club all seemed to have the desired effect. And of course, if these methods didn’t help to facilitate control and direction, some good old-fashioned corporeal punishment was never entirely out of the question. When it did appear in the isolated instances, its impact was “enlightening”.

As those four years ran their course, between the Fall of 1965 and the Summer of 1969, nurturing our “College Preparatory” educational development, events outside our hallowed walls would prove to be some of the most impacting and significant as any in our nation’s history.

By 1965, after an incredible burst of energy reflecting a string of amazing “firsts”, the United States, with the rendezvous mission of Gemini Seven and Six-A, was beginning to reverse the trend of Soviet dominance in the Race for the Moon. The NFL and rival AFL set up to have the two Champions of the 1966 campaigns play against each other in the first Super Bowl. Radical violence took to a new scale and dimension with the eruption of Watts, the black ghetto in Los Angeles. General Motors earnings broke all profit records. Sandy Koufax dominated as the Dodgers won over the Twins in the World Series. Black Muslim leader Malcolm X was murdered. Sound of Music” was movie of the year. And “I Can’t Get No Satisfaction”, by the Rolling Stones, was Pop Music’s hottest single of the year.

By 1966 the uncertainty and unrest was even more evident. The Amalgamated Clothing Workers Union became the first ALF-CIO union affiliate to question President Johnson’s Vietnam Policy. Our sexual behavior patterns and their explanations are published in Masters and Johnson’s Human Sexual Response. Buddhist monks were resorting to self immolation protesting government policies in South Vietnam. Richard Speck savagely murdered eight nurses in a Chicago dormitory. Cleveland, Chicago, and Omaha all had their taste of urban race rioting.

The summer had given rise to a new and auspicious label in Academia --- Student Power. The rise of the separatist “Black Power” movement had closed off the young white students to meaningful support. So these young, predominantly middle class intellectuals, eager to prove they had a social conscience, rejecting the materialistic pursuits of their parents, concentrated their energies on influencing and expanding the “New Left”. By 1968 Eugene McCarthy was to become its most visible standard-bearer on Capitol Hill. Helping to fuel the fires of the already pretty controversial war in Vietnam, Sergeant Barry Sadler released a somewhat idyllic ballad about “The Green Beret”. Law enforcement, already feeling itself handcuffed by social pressures, internal affairs scrutiny, and laws implemented in lesser courts, had to reckon with the Miranda Decision which forced law enforcement personnel to advise any suspects in their custody of “rights” before proceeding with any kind of interrogation. On the lighter side, “A Man for All Seasons” was movie of the year and the Monkee’s “Daydream Believer” was Pop Music’s big recording of the year.

In 1967 a Federal Court convicted heavyweight boxer Cassius Clay or the Muslin conversion of Muhammed Ali, of violating Selective Service Laws by refusing to be drafted. Disagreement in the Middle East ignites a military confrontation between Moshe Dayan’s Israel and Abdul Nasser’s Egypt. Israel embarrassed Egypt and the whole United Arab League with the ease it displayed in reducing the opposition to submission. It was, somewhat mockingly, referred to as the Six Day War. Thurgood Marshall was sworn in as the first black justice to the Supreme Court. The Haight-Ashbury version to student power and the youth movement; the flower children, had their anthem made to order in the form of Scott McKenzie’s “Are You Going to San Francisco?”.

Another song that provided additional significance was the Loving Spoonful’s “Summer in the City”. No doubt, the summer was going to be a hot one racially. In June Newark, N.J. got the dubious distinction of having the worst rioting and looting since the eruption of Watts in 1965, only to have that surpassed in July by the worst riot in the 20th Century erupting in Detroit’s 12th Street ghetto area. The riot is quelled only after the National Guard and 2,700 Army Regulars were sent to the area. In the four day disturbance 33 persons are killed. With an otherwise unblemished resume’ the U.S. Manned Space Program suffered a catastrophic, and potentially demoralizing, setback with the deaths of Apollo astronauts Gus Grissom, Ed White, and Roger Chaffee in their spacecraft while rehearsing for an upcoming flight at the Cape Canaveral launch pad. With the men still strapped into their seats, faulty wiring caused arcing turning the capsule into a searing inescapable furnace.

Social statements were even making it big time in entertainment. “Hair” was a smashing hit as an Off Broadway Play. Sidney Poitier is the Black Protagonist teacher trying to get respect in a hostile, white, working class high school setting in “To Sir with Love”. On the Pop Music scene Lulu’s “To Sir (With Love)” is the year’s number one hit, and movie of the year is “In the Heat of the Night”.

Then came 1968. In some areas, this was the watershed year. Some of the phenomena that were already in progress would come to a head this year. By now Vietnam is a controversial issue at home and abroad. At this point, the costs were escalating, the pace was lingering, there were mounting human losses on both sides, peace talks were virtually non-existent, morale was low, and after all the years involved, still no fronts existed in the guerilla war. So, as in years past, the soldiers on both sides were looking forward to another reprieve from this jungle nightmare in the Tet Truce, the couple of days set aside to celebrate the Vietnamese culture’s New Year. This time it would be radically different.

During the dawn of the first day of the Tet Truce, 30 January, amid the smoke screen of huge fireworks displays, rockets and artillery usher in the Viet Cong’s launching of the largest and best coordinated offensive of the war. Fighting is intensive on both sides. By 10 February the offensive is largely crushed. Militarily, Tet is decidedly a U.S. victory; but psychologically and politically it took its toll. Confidence in our involvement was eroding. By the end of March President Johnson would concede that he too no longer had the answer when he shocked the nation by announcing that he would not seek re-election to the presidency. Also, during March an event was unfolding that would ultimately become one of the war’s most publicized atrocities. A platoon from Charlie Company, American Division, slaughtered between 200 and 500 unarmed villagers at the hamlet of Mylai-4.

On the domestic scene it’s still more of the same. One pleasant distraction is the Winter Olympics. While the handsome French favorite Jean Claude Killy steals the show with his skiing successes, Peggy Fleming captures everybody’s heart with a performance that has her walk away with a gold medal. The Summer Olympics however prove to be the antithesis with a high element of tension and derision as exemplified by runners Tommie Smith and John Carlos’ raising of clenched “Black Power” fists while on the victory stand during the playing of the National Anthem. With one of the decade’s ugly scourges rearing its ugly head again, an assassin’s bullet determined that Reverend Martin Luther King would not make it to another planned peace rally of SCLC in Washington, DC during March. And the New Left’s rising star hopefully residing in the White House was diminished dramatically with an assassin’s bullet taking the life of Robert Kennedy in June.

Students from Coast to Coast are involved in sit-ins and confrontation politics. Columbia, San Francisco State, and Univ. of Calif. at Berkeley are the most publicized. Gary, IN and Cleveland, OH are the urban racial hot spots for the year. Philip and David Berrigan, both Catholic priests, burn draft records stolen from the local Selective Service office in Catonsville, MD. The North Koreans seize a “spy ship”, the USS Pueblo. On the international beat Czechoslovakia attempted to liberate itself from the Iron Curtain but is crushed by Soviet military power that is swift, effective, and eager to send a message that any additional attempts will be handled in similar fashion.

In a year laced with civil disorder and protest, no doubt the crown jewel and most publicized events had to be those centering around the Democratic National Convention 26-29 August. In the convention setting there was one thing getting frustratingly clearer as the agenda moved along; that the Daley Machine was in control of the destiny of the outcome. Forces on the inside and the outside would inevitably clash. Both inside and out, some of the clashes were verbal and some were outright physical. Inside Dan Rather and Mike Wallace, both broadcasters, got manhandled by Daley cronies. The crowd favorite Eugene McCarthy and other candidates and supporters were embroiled in lengthy debates punctuated by prolonged demonstrations. Outside, the week of mounting tensions and intermittent violence, coupled with the growing realization that the Daley Machine was squeezing the McCarthy/McGovern advocates out of the picture, had youthful anti-war demonstrators confront and engage police and National Guardsmen in a full scale riot. Of those arrested, eight of the ringleaders will go on to be indicted on federal charges of conspiracy to incite a riot. As folk heroes of the counter culture, they will become affectionately known as the Chicago Seven; with seven of the eight ending up on trial. If there was any time that was ripe for a “New Left” candidate it was right now.

By the next election though the socio-political forces impacting our society would be beating a different drum. What the Convention materialized was a very middle of the road Hubert H. Humphrey. Not able to galvanize with the new-left , Humphrey is outdistanced by Richard M. Nixon and a suggested silent majority. The movie of the year was “Oliver”. The number one Pop Single of the year was a little out of character for what was regularly on the charts. While there was a steady diet of “Soul” music, the Psychedelic sound, and folk-rock, the whimsical “Hey Jude” by the Beatles is the year’s hit.

Finally, there was 1969. The closing year to an amazing decade; the Senior year of our studies at Bishop Fallon High School. This too was a year full of some “amazing” and significant events. In its third edition, with the first two having been lopsided affairs favoring the NFL, on 12 January 69, Joe Namath follows up his brazened “prediction”, made earlier in the week, by leading his New York Jets over the smug and cocky Baltimore Colts, 16-7, in the Super Bowl. This represents the AFL’s first victory in this bragging rights encounter. Richard Milhous Nixon is sworn in as 37th President of the United States. “OH, Calcutta”, a new off-Broadway musical, takes expression of the theatrical art form to new limits by featuring nudity. A popular favorite, Mario Andretti, wins the Indianapolis 500. The Chicago Cubs, perennial doormats, under Leo Durocher, are making the most serious run for the National League Pennant since 1945.

Following a trend of show business stars getting into politics, Shirley Temple Black becomes a member of the U.S. delegation to the United Nations. An estimated 400,000 youths of the flower-power persuasion turned out to listen to the Woodstock Music and Art Fair at White Lake, N.Y. for a three day weekend. The youths lived and grooved on music, love, trust, and harmony. An event that has unanswered questions to this day had serious political consequences for Senator Edward Kennedy. On July 18th, the car he was driving runs off the highway in Chappaquiddick, MA. and plunged into a pond, killing passenger Mary Jo Kopeckne.

By fulfilling a promise made by John F. Kennedy at the beginning of the decade, and seeking to realize the dream of mankind since the beginning of time, three Space Explorers embark on a mission for the Moon. On 20 July, teaming with Buzz Aldrin and Mike Collins aboard the Apollo 11 spacecraft Columbia, Neil Armstrong becomes the first human being to step onto the Moon’s surface. The drama is consummated with Armstrong’s brief but meaningful remark, voiced as he was stepping from the lunar landing module, “…that’s one small step for man, one giant leap for Mankind.”

The New York Mets, clown princes of the National League dramatically surge past the Chicago Cubs in a late season rally, GGGRRR, and go on to defeat the Baltimore Orioles in a World Series chock full of clutch-hitting and dramatic play making. Millions of Americans paused to express dissatisfaction with the U.S. action in Vietnam during Moratorium Day, 15 October. Observances occurred in virtually every town and city across the country. “Midnight Cowboy” is the movie of the year. “Aquarius”, by the Fifth Dimension is the year’s sweeping favorite on the Pop Music scene. And of course the year’s significance, to some, was of a sexual flavor, with the suggestive inference the numbers had. School administrators were quick to make sure that when a “69” was worn, it was designating our graduation year and nothing else!!!

In passing through this segment of time there was a degree of profundity in the coincidence. Chronologically we were at the crossroads of another decade; another time reference point. As Graduates we were at the crossroads of our lives. There we stood, together, with so much already behind us and yet so much still ahead to look forward to. In an era that was so dynamic, so diverse, so confusing, still so incomplete and unsettled, we also realized we were going to have to step forward nonetheless. In stepping forward through the next twenty years, each one of us must have had as dynamic and diverse an experience as those years we grew up in. It was our destiny.

Editor’s Note: “A CHRONICLE” prepared by an anonymous classmate


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Hickok

The Promise

Sunday, March 21, 2010

...Under Pain Of Mortal Sin

Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show...(the opening lines of David Copperfield as written by Charles Dickens;inspired by MTM). Or at least this ACCOUNT will, perhaps, have a reflection on whether I'm going to be the hero in my own life...Alone - like the moon. Alone - I wait for you. Alone - all of my life. I can't forget you.
Soledad~~~Amy Sky

Several of us Bishop Fallon Community and Friends were having supper at MY TOMATO PIE Friday evening. Keep in mind that this is a Friday, it is Lent, and part of what is ordered is Cheese & Pepperoni Pizza. While the food that was ordered, was being served a couple of remarks are being made about the pepperoni element to which I dead-pan...under pain of mortal sin.

To my surprise I received a bunch a blank stares. I'm sure it was a mix of...'where did that come from', and... 'what is he talking about, now!?!?'

I was somewhat surprised by the bewilderment because the crowd for the most part was: 58+ years age-group, attended Catholic High Schools, and Catholic Grade Schools. Apparently as these friends were growing up and observing their Lenten Season, they were never informed of the GRAVITY of KNOWINGLY eating meat on Friday.

Now I'm not looking to turn this essay into a theological and ecclesiastical thesis. I'd have to tap into the Library of Congress and the Liberia Editrice Vaticana, and I'm not about to do that. However, as I was growing up to where I was of age to have to start observing the fast and abstinence requirements of Lent, I was taught...that Under Pain of Mortal Sin, a Catholic could not knowingly eat meat on Friday. And apparently none of the persons at the table ever heard of that. I wasn't going to push it; we were there to have fun. But---I was haunted by this. Was I the only misinformed Catholic of that era?!?!? Over the week-end I thought I'd look at a couple of options. One absolutely shocked me!!!!!

I put...'Under Pain of Mortal Sin' into Google and lo and behold a non-Vatican-sponsored Catholic discussion Web Log comes up. And sure enough, as shown below, in WWW.AskaCatholic.Com...

The Church DOES teach that during ALL Friday's of Lent we are required to abstain from meat.
As the Body of Christ, the members of the Church offer a mini-sacrifice during this penitential season.

Our Blessed Lord, through the Church, has always taught that there are 3 criteria necessary for a mortal sin:
  • Knowledge (knowing it is a sin.)
  • Full Consent of the Will (they willingly do it any way)
  • Serious reflection. (It was no accident.)
If any one of these criteria are missing, it is NOT a mortal sin.

If someone has met all three criteria above, and still eats meat on a Friday of Lent, they would have to go to Confession to remove the deadly/mortal sin from their soul.
A person who dies with mortal sin on their soul cannot be saved. (Go to Heaven)

If one were to purposely eat meat on a day of fasting or abstinence from meat, one is committing an act of rebellion. And therein lies the sin. There is nothing particularly holy or unholy about eating certain foods on certain days.
This is a matter of discipline and obedience to the Church's legitimate authority to impose disciplines. That said, there are all kinds of reasonable exceptions. There are those who, for health reasons, can't fast, or those who may have no choice in what they eat.
If all you have left in the refrigerator is a hamburger and you don't have enough money to buy anything else to eat, God is not going to send you to hell for eating meat on a day of abstinence. That's a pretty far fetched example, but it serves to illustrate my point. The sin of rebellion is what constitutes "grave matter". In fact, the Bible compares rebellion to witchcraft or sorcery.

The question was "has the Vatican ever stated or pronounced" anything on this issue and the fact is, while it is not in force anymore, there was a time when abstinence from flesh meat was binding under pain of mortal sin on every Friday (except those within octaves, which are the eight days after certain major feasts like Christmas and Easter).
"Binding under pain of mortal sin" means if you do it knowingly and deliberately, you are deprived of saving grace and if you die in this state (without repentance), you will go to Hell. This changed in the 60's. Thus you have the tradition of fish on Friday and so forth. As John points out, this was a discipline, and the sin was in disobeying the authority (binding and loosing power) of the Church to lay down this rule.

...there is a discussion of Lent, fasting, and the gravity of knowingly eating meat on Friday. In the discussions, the expression...Under Pain of Mortal Sin---is used!!!! I was at least relieved to know I wasn't nuts; I wasn't the only Catholic that knew of the expression.

Now comes the shocker. I'm at my Mother-in-Law's on Sunday. Keep in mind she is 85 years old. If anybody can reflect on old-school Catholicism, it would be my Mother-in-Law. During supper I asked her what does she recall being taught about the gravity of knowingly eating meat on Friday during Lent. With 'you' being taught by the Felician Nuns, weren't 'you' taught that the gravity was...under pain of Mortal Sin?!?!? To my surprise she, and her life-partner emphatically retorted---No!!!!

Apparently time and distance does blur realities. That is the angst I am concerned with regarding other areas of discussions where Revisionists take liberties, with the insulation of time, to suggest that different actions would have had different reactions.

While I was taught by the Felicians for 3rd Grade and 6th Grade, I will now say this, the tougher Nuns were the SSMN of Annunciation. It was at St. Boniface and Annunciation that I was taught...UNDER PAIN OF MORTAL SIN, it was wrong to knowingly eat Meat on Friday during Lent.
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Hickok
The Promise

Friday, March 12, 2010

VOCATION TRADE FAIR

Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show...(the opening lines of David Copperfield as written by Charles Dickens;inspired by MTM). Or at least this ACCOUNT will, perhaps, have a reflection on whether I'm going to be the hero in my own life...They don't know what to do with something so good That you wouldn't hurt them, You wouldn't hurt them if you could One of these days they're going to fall into their brew, And they'll know exactly what they did to you---In Another Time---SADE

This essay is an effort to bring to light a bit more of the work I have been involved with since Airborne/D H L closed their doors in early 2009. To get back on my feet(scooter!!!) again, I found I had to somewhat reinvent the wheel, and do a 'Rock Jones Space Rangers' course correction. The information below is a fairly accurate explanation of what I am involved with. It details the two primary objectives. The one is a long-term schematic. The other is a bit more immediate in context; May 13, 2010---to be exact.

What am I looking to accomplish here, you may be asking!?!? While The Belle Center is a non-profit---we are not asking for money???? That is a joke; at least chuckle!!! We are looking to undertake a project that will take place---for the first time---regarding The Portal Program @ The Belle Center. It is ambitious to say the least, since we are expecting to have many many tables, manned by many many representatives of private sector building trades companies, Trade Organizations, and Labor Union representatives. As a foot note here, for those of you of this Community that are, or have been affiliated, with TEAMSTERS Union Local 375, know that Michael Wach has already given me a 'verbal' that he will be participating. And certainly I was overjoyed when I learned that. The Belle Center gymnasium is big---and we are expecting to fill it!!!! The five branches of the Military, which also have been invited, will only cover a portion of the Gym floor. I know that there are those of you in this Community that run your own businesses, or are high enough in the administrative ladder where you have the influence to participate. Dave Bauer!!!! You are the ideal candidate. You own your business---and it is one of the HOTTEST businesses out there. You are involved in ecology and environment solutions. And many many of these disadvantaged and underprivileged young adults have no clue that such a 'work world' possibility exists. I am therefore politely asking that you might consider 'manning' a table that may include an exhibit and some literature to pass out. Or at least talk to me about this in more detail. I will provide cell phone numbers; the whole nine yards. And this is my appeal to the larger Community. There are so many opportunities; so many types of businesses and services that need to be brought down to their level; the level that these young adults can engage in, on a one-on-one basis, and better understand. Health care is another possibilty for 'work world' potential. With us baby-boomers aging, the health-care vocations are supposed to be the next panacea, much like the automobiles, and the steel industry was when our fathers were bringing in the daily bread. Welders, roofers, mechanics, computer and hi-tech repair, building trades---both commercial and residential, plumbers, electricians, and printers. Above and beyond everything else here people, I am trying to appeal to the sense of the social-conscience that, even as a speck of dust, may still possibly exist out there in today's business world. There is no obligation. The VOCATION TRADE FAIR is May 13, 2010. Please---consider it. Cell is 716-578-8568 Email me at crazielou@aol.com---or----mszymanski@thebellecenter.org

Mr. Tom Campbell;

My name is Lou Marconi and I am the Operations Specialist that is affiliated, as an Americorp 'volunteer,' with the Belle Center, 104 Maryland St. Buffalo NY 14201. We are a non-profit that tries to reach out to the underprivileged and the disadvantaged in our community. And, of course, with the continued slide in our economic climate, that community is ever increasing. I am involved in a work-in-progress initiative at the Belle Center called the Portal Program.

There are two projects we are trying to undertake. First the long term.

The objective is to get post-GED students, and Americorp Volunteers, ages 17-24---ready for the 'work world'. The agenda is three-pronged to achieve that objective. For many, we will steer them toward a junior-college, or university education. For some we will suggest the Military-option as a career possibility. For the few that are not college material, we are trying to get these individuals 'tools' in their 'toolbox' by way of vocational training workshops, on-the-job training internships, and entry-level apprenticeship programs. To achieve the skill levels the vocation-candidate will need to be ready for the "work-world," it is my responsibility for developing relationships with the Private Sector businesses and building trades, Labor Unions, and Trade Organizations to have the candidate afforded hands-on experience. Of course, if a job possibility materializes, that is icing on the cake. By way of phone-contact, one-on-one discussions, and group presentations these partnerships and joint-ventures are sought to provide the 'tools' for the candidate to become employable.

The short-term objective. We are asking that there be participation in the first ever VOCATION TRADE FAIR that will take place at The Belle Center on Thursday; May 13th from 1PM to 5PM. It is an excellent opportunity for the Buffalo West Side community, the Trade Organizations, Related companies, and The Belle Center to SHOWCASE the Opportunities that exist in the WNY area.

The Portal Program at the Belle Center is committed to providing educational, vocational, and military opportunities to all participants of the program. We understand the need in the community and are actively seeking new partners to assist us in this dire mission.

The Portal Program Director, Michael Szymanski, and myself appreciate any effort that will help get this message out to a broader base. Please allow me the opportunity to contact you for a scheduled meeting to discuss this material and how we may be able to effect the Labor and Trades Community.

May 13th!!!!!!!!!!!! It could be a great afternoon; a mini-Reunion if you will!!!!!!!!!!
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Hickok

Friday, March 5, 2010

...a humble start; Around The Corner

Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show...(the opening lines of David Copperfield as written by Charles Dickens;inspired by MTM). Or at least this ACCOUNT will, perhaps, have a reflection on whether I'm going to be the hero in my own life...this is a song for you, so far away, so far away, from me. James Taylor

It was a year ago, this week that I sent this, as a humble gesture, to make an effort to put together a 40 Year Class Reunion for those of us whom graduated from Bishop Fallon High School in 1969. The poem was given to me by a dear friend, from my grade school days, back in 1991. I immediately found the words meaningful, and the message compelling. And while the responsibilities and complexities of life tended to get in the way of the traditional mileposts that I was passing through in my life, I finally decided that...no-time-is-a-good-time-that-is-why-right-now-is-the-best-time. So around this time in 2009, I decided it was appropriate---to make a reunion, happen. The results---were overwhelming!!!!! And I'm going to use the term 'side-bar' here because I'm sure, at least, Jimmy Scime is going to get a big charge out of this. I had a feeling I was onto something that would develop and gain momentum. And I got this feeling because right after I sent this to those of the community that I at least had email addresses on at the time, I received a very very animated 'side-bar' anecdotal response---from Jimmy Scime!!!! Of course, like Sally Fields---when she won her Oscar(Oh My God---it is the Oscars this week-end!!!), I thought...they're listening!!!! They're listening!!!!! And I believe, to this day, that the main ingredient to this success was the content and context of the poem.

Because of that,I want to thank my dear friend who originally sent me this Poem. Know that this Poem has been my driving-force to bring together those people whom have become essential to me. Whether on an individual basis, or as a collective group, know that I will always treasure these now stronger and deepened friendships. For those of you who decided to become a part of this
noble effort----from the bottom of my heart, I sincerely thank you.


This is the poem:



Around the
corner I have a friend,

In this great
city that has no end,

Yet the days go
by and weeks rush on,

And before I
know it, a year is gone.

And I never see
my old friends face,

For life is a
swift and terrible race,

He knows
I like him just as well,

As in the days
when I rang his bell.

And he rang
mine but we were younger then,

And now we are
busy, tired men.

Tired of
playing a foolish game,

Tired of trying
to make a name.

'Tomorrow' I
say! 'I will call on Jim

Just to show
that I'm thinking of him.'

But tomorrow
comes and tomorrow goes,

And distance
between us grows and grows.

Around the
corner, yet miles away,

'Here's a
telegram sir,' 'Jim died today.'

And that's what
we get and deserve in the end.

Around the
corner, a vanished friend.






Remember to
always say what you mean.

If you Love someone, tell them.



Because when YOU decide that it is the right time, it might be too late.


--{-=@
Hickok